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Please Unsubscribe, Thanks!

How to Take Back Our Time, Attention, and Purpose in a World Designed to Bury Us in Bullshit

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A life-changing guide to freeing ourselves from the utter nonsense of modern life, for fans of Atomic Habits and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck—the best book to read if you're stressed-out, overloaded, or just plain weirded out by this crazy world we're all living in.

"Simultaneously hilarious and deadly serious...An extraordinary book." —Oliver Burkeman, New York Times bestselling author of Four Thousand Weeks
  • Winner of an Axiom Business Award for Best Business Book on Work-Life Balance A Must-Read Book for August 2023 by the Next Big Idea Book Club, curated by Malcolm Gladwell, Adam Grant, Susan Cain, and Daniel Pink
    For decades, we have been told that being overworked, overcommitted, and overwhelmed is the price to pay for successful lives. That the constant striving, and scrolling, and buying into lifestyles that are marketed to us is a direct path to happiness, when all we seem to get in return is a permanent place on the hamster wheel.

    Writer and moviemaker Julio Vincent Gambuto understood this all too well. He was constantly on the go, overloading his calendar and inbox, trying to convince himself that being busy meant being fulfilled. But in the darkest moments of 2020, he was confronted with an uncomfortable truth: life has been on autopilot for a very long time. He was trapped in a never-ending loop, exhausted, lonely, and wildly disconnected from all that truly mattered.

    Now, in Please Unsubscribe, Thanks!, Gambuto maps a radical blueprint for "unsubscribing"—a rethinking of our digital habits, the setting of real boundaries, a reevaluation of our social circles, and a reexamination of powerful core ideas that no longer serve us.

    Inside, you'll find:
    —100+ practical and tactical strategies for how to be happy in the chaos of our world, and how to unplug and reevaluate life so you can re-design it and live it with more meaning and joy.
    —A deep understanding of how modern life got to be so damn relentless thanks to Big Forces like tech, banks, social media, and politics.
    —Important opportunities to reflect on where all your time, attention, money and energy really go.
    —An eye-opening conversation about work that will change your perspective on work, life, and family.
    —and more!

    A brilliant, timely, and inspired blend of social science and self-improvement philosophy, Please Unsubscribe, Thanks! will shift your perspective, open your eyes, and help you find the power inside to make real, lasting change.
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      • Kirkus

        June 15, 2023
        A filmmaker and producer maps out clear-cut methods to uncomplicate life, online and off. The Covid-19 pandemic took a particularly devastating toll on Gambuto, as he struggled to find breathing room for six months while quarantining in his small Manhattan apartment. Furthermore, he was "tired of being tethered" to emails, auto-subscriptions, unfulfilling personal relationships, and compulsive purchases of unnecessary things. Building on his 2020 viral essay "Prepare for the Ultimate Gaslighting," Gambuto seeks to help others declutter by investigating what has made levels of happiness and leisure time in America consistently plummet in the last few years. He cites relentless levels of commitments, agendas, voracious consumerism, and social treadmills as the main culprits, and he swiftly but informatively moves through the relentless mechanics of "click-up economics," strategic branding, compulsive consumption, and the conundrum of corporations gaslighting a pandemic-weary public. As he emphasizes repeatedly, breaking free from these habits and hindrances takes steely determination. He offers a viable prescription of email unsubscribing, browser blocking, app downsizing, and embarking on a "digital detox," and he also shows us how to renegotiate work or personal relationships. The author dispenses step-by-step instructions on how to effect change and distance oneself from automation and become resistant to the sly allure of advertising. Gambuto's enthusiastic delivery and practical self-help tactics will remind readers that significant internal work is necessary to clear out the clutter, making room for beneficial relationships in real life and online. Witty and passionately written, the book shows that "there actually is time to process your life" once you eliminate seductive inbox offers, opt-in links, premium memberships, and toxic "people subscriptions." It all starts with the "deeply gratifying" process of cutting the subscription cord and being wholly present for renewal with oneself and communion with others. A potent slice of social commentary and strategic advice on reclaiming valuable time and personal joy.

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      • Booklist

        July 14, 2023
        One of the recurring themes of the height of the pandemic was that of awakening--people reevaluated their lives, values, and purpose. Gambuto's impetus for writing this book was the realization that: "something is deeply wrong with how we're living if we were that relieved when it all stopped." He wanted to quiet the noise. To do that, he started by unsubscribing from emails from brands, politics, and more. He also turned off the TV, refused phone calls for a short time, and sat with the uncomfortableness of feeling out of the loop. Once he reached a new normal, he reevaluated every aspect of his life. Based on his experiences, he guides readers on how to be more present, such as re-sensitizing oneself to money (no autopayments) and how to prioritize relationships. He knew the vortex would be there to suck people back into their pre-pandemic ways. However, the tools offered in this book will help readers grab on to solid advice that will help them step away from consumerism and the rat race and focus on the joy in their lives.

        COPYRIGHT(2023) Booklist, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.

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